This page is an
Upline Interview with Bob
Proctor
April 1999 - www.upline.com entitled
Moral Compensation
i've written (and said) many times that everything I know
about Network Marketing I learned from someboy else. I love
learning and I love learners - those thinking men and women
whose lives are devoted to knowledge. And I've never met a
learner who didn't give more than he got. Such is the case
with Bob Proctor - he is a master student, and more, a
master of a teacher.
Bob's been at our last two
Upline Masters Seminars
and always gets the lion's share of rave reviews. I take
notes when Bob speaks and I usually never do that, but
there are always three or five insightful
thought-provoking, immediately useful things he says that I
don't ever want to forget.
Since the following interview is already written down for
you, you don't have to take notes. Bud I'd sure recommend
reading with a high-lighter in hand. As usual, when Proctor
speaks, leaders listen.
---- JMF
Robert, you have an extensive
background in corporate America, in teaching and training
those people. What attracted you into Network
Marketing?
A doctor I have tremendous respect for got involved with a
Netwrok Marketing company. It was seeing his picture in a
Network Marketing magazine that brought the industry to my
attention and caused me to take a look at it from a totally
different perspective.
What was the basis of your
respect for him?
I've studied the mind for approximately 40 years, and he
probably taught me more about the mind than any other
individual. He knows more about the mind than anyone I've
ever met, or even read about. He's not a money guy, he's
involved in the healing arts, so when I saw his picture
attached with this company, I thought, "There has to be
something here that I don't understand". So I decided to
look into it.
When I did, my whole perspective of the industry changed. I
think I'm like an awful lot of people in that I didn't
understand it but thought I did. If someone had asked me to
explain Network Marketing, I would have been at a loss to
explain it. And yet, if you had said, "Do you understand
it?" I would have said " Sure". when the truth is, I
didn't.
Did you have a negative impression of it, Bob?
I don't think I had a negative or positive impression. It
was more disinterest than anything. I often say "I was
caught in my own trap." I have taught in numerous programs
that anything we don't understand we have a tendency to
criticize and ridicule carelessly.
What did you find when you
started looking?
I found that, all things being equal - good company, good
product - it's probably the most moral form of compensation
I have ever seen. And I've studied a lot of them. I believe
that the whole universe operates in an orderly manner, and
Network Marketing operates more in harmoney with the laws
of the universe than any other business I've seen. A person
truly receives exactly what he's worth. No nepotism, no
favoritism. I find that rather unusual in the business
world.
What are some of the laws
you're referring to, and how does Network Marketing honor
them?
Well, for example, the law of cause and effect - which is
one of the laws in the universe - clearly states that
energy returns to its source of origination. Or in more
familiar terms, what you sow, you reap. Action and reaction
are equal and opposite. This business is so perfectly
aligned with that principle. If a person puts the effort
out, it does come back. People are recognized for their
efforts - recognition is a big part of it, and compensation
is a big part of it.
I see that there are two sources of income in life, one
psychic , one material. The psychic income is the
satisfaction we get from how we spend our days. We should
earn enough money to provide the thiings we want and live
the way we choose. Network Marketing for the most part,
offers that person the opportunity for both.
The people I've observed who are successful in this
industry truly love what they are doing. Once they
understand the system, away they go -- helping others
understand it, too. Keep in mind that there are a lot of
people who are not successful, but that's their own fault.
Another unusual characteristic of Network Marketing is the
seemingly small distance from the bottom to the top.
Can you say more about that, because a common criticism of
this industry, Bob, is that there are just a few people at
the top while most people are struggling.
That is something
that people say, and yet, if you ask them to explain it,
they're unable to. Again, what we don't understand we have
a tendency to criticize and ridicule. I was probably guilty
of that. I got up and said that I didn't know anyone who
was earning any money. Well, I really didn't know that many
people involved in Network Marketing at all. There were
passing acquaintances, but I certainly didn't know what
they were earning.
I've since found out, of course, that there are a lot of
people earning great money in Network Marketing. My wife
has been very successful, and she's having an awful lot of
fun at it. I spend almost all of my time working in this
industry now because I enjoy working with Network Marketers
so much. I still do some work outside, and it's not that I
couldn't do more. I just don't really have a desire to.
Bob, besides the
moral quality that you've already spoken about in the
structure of Network Markeing, what other differences do
you see between Network Marketing and a conventional
business?
The difference is like night and day. It's paradoxical,
really -- people who do not understand Network Marketing
point at it as a pyramid, when the truth is that they are
probably involved in something that truly is a pyramid!
All business is shaped like a pyramid, but the difference
is that in Network Marketing, everybody is at the top of
their own pyramid. In corporate America, that's not the way
it is. A good example of a pyramid is a Canadian bank.
There are only half a dozen banks in Canada, and the people
at the top all earn in the millions, while the teller
probably earns $20-$25,000 a year, with very little hope of
getting to $35,000.
A person can sit down and draw her own star, then go and
get it in Network Marketing. On top of that, she'll get
help - in Network Marketing, everyone wants to help
everyone. That isn't the case outside this business.
In Network Marketing, a person has the opportunity for
expansion and fuller expression. In other words, his life
can continually improve. There seems to be no end to it.
I've only been around the industry for a little over three
years, but I'm absolutely fascinated with it. People
naturally want to expand and express and grow - the
corporate structure impedes that growth, while network
Marketing supports it. In fact, it's to the advantage of
the people above you to help you grow.
Bob, in looking at the uniqueness of this business, what
are some of those challenges that Network Marketers
face?
I think the biggest challenge a Network Marketer faces is
the paradigm shift that they have to make themselves.
Second is learning how to present the opportunity to
someone in such a way that enables that person to make a
paradigm shift, too.
We're conditioned genetically; we're conditioned
environmentally. Like the old economy -- if you look at it
as the old economy and the new economy. The old economy
deals with competition. I think a good example is if you
had a pie, and the pie is cut up, and you get a piece. I
get a piece. Maybe six other people get a piece. If I want
more of that pie, I've got to outwit, out-market, or
out-sell you, or out-scheme you. For me to have more pie,
you're going to have to have less. We're dealing with a
limited supply.
In Network Marketing, which I belive is the distribution
system that is ushering in the new economy, a person is
dealing with an infinite supply, which is in line with
spiritual laws. There is no limit. So the persona says, "If
I want more pie, I'll make a bigger pie, and I'll make you
aware of how I am enjoying more pie, so you can, too." It
is the most phenomental system, and it just keeps getting
better, because you become more and more aware of the truth
of it.
What kind of
difficulties does that present for somebody who, say, came
out of a corporate environment where the rules of the game
are different?
I'll give you a good example for your readers to try.
Question to the readers: are you right-handed or
left-handed? Okay, now I'm going to ask you to sign your
name. Sign your name on a piece of paper. Now, put the pen
in the other hand. Don't just read this -- put your pen in
your other hand.
You can feel the tension building in your body. Your mind
reacts to it. You think "I don't write with my left hand.
This is so uncomfortable. It's so cumbersome. I'm going to
make such a mess. I'm going to make myself look foolish,
and what will my neighbor say?" We're not programmed to
write with our other hand.
People are programmed to live a certain way. What we're
saying is change the programming. It's like learning a new
language. It's almost as if you go home and your family
doesn't speak English any longer, but French or Spanish.
Eventually, you would learn what they are saying, but it
would be extremely difficult and very stressful at the
beginning.
Can you speak
about the things that need to be reprogrammed,
specifically, Bob, or give us some examples of
things?
We have to begin by understanding ourselves, and improving
our self-esteem. We've been raised to be dependent on the
corporation, the boss, the company. We're programmed to
believe that if you go to school, get a good education and
a job in a big company, that you're safe. Of course,
everyone knows that that's not true. People have been being
laid off, downsized, reengineered, or fired by the hundreds
of thousands -- many are walking the street wondering
what's happened.
We're living in a new economy. The world has shifted -- I
believe it's aligning itself more with the universal laws.
See, there's a bigger gap today between the haves and the
have-nots than there ever has been before, and it's geting
wider. In a recent article in the Toronto Daily, they pointed out that the top ten
percent of income earners are earning 314 times what the
bottom ten percent are earning. The people on the bottom
haven't even a hope of how to get to the top, and the old
system isn't going to help them.
Network Marketing clearly explains how you get to the top.
The intellect can understand that -- "I know I can get to
the top. Now I've got to change that emotional, conditioned
mind of mine." Tha't harder, but people care and want to
help you make the transition. There are some absolutely
brilliant people who intellectually understand it, and yet
don't make it. They don't make it because they never get
that paradigm changed. I think there has to be more
education in that area. Network Marketing is still new
enough that it has not come together for the development of
people yet -- and it may not for a few more years. It's in
an evolutionary state. There has to be more focus on
helping the individual change her subjective conditioning.
People have a difficult time grasping it, so they struggle.
You see, wealthy people have always had multiple sources of
income. I believe that wealth is a very real part of life
-- it has to be addressed and understood. A person cannot
live a full life if he doesn't have any money, because we
use money for things, and we need things for the
development of our potential. I have been teaching people
that they must have multiple sources of income if they are
going to accumulate any wealth -- not just one source. It
won't work.
The beautiful part about Network Marketing is you set up
multiple sources of income with each person you bring in.
So in a relatively short period of time I could have two or
three thousand sources of income. Makes a difference in a
person's life.
Which speaks to the business of
leverage.
Absolutely. There are three income earning strategies. M1,
M2, and M3.
M1 is trading our time for money. Approximately 95 to 96
percent of the population does that. It has an inherent
problem called saturation.
What do you mean
the inherent problem is "saturation"?
YOu run out of tim. You only have so much time and if
you're trading your time for money, you obviously have a
ceiling on what you can earn. Doctors are realizing that
today. The doctor has to spend more time to earn less
money. So does a laborer. So does a lawyer -- changeable
hours are the most important words in a lawyer's
vocabulary. That's the M1 strategy that school teaches us
and that we've observed our parents involvement with for
the most part.
If a person becomes wealthy on the M1 strategy, it's at the
expense of a life. They've compromised on the car they
drive, the home that they live in, the vacations they take,
the school they give their kids, the clothes they wear,
because they need the money to live.
M2 is an excellent strategy -- investing money to earn
monty. Those who understand it know that leverage is a
great way to work the M2 strategy. There're only three
people out of 100, though, who understand , and some of
those aren't very good at it.
Now, M3 is, without question, the strategy that wealthy
people have always used. It's a strategy of leverage.
Approximately one percent of the population uses this
strategy, but they earn around 96 percent of all the money
that is earned. M3 is multiplying your time through the
efforts of others, by setting up multiple sources of
income. It''s a phenomenal strategy, and Network Marketing
is tuned into it.
Earning money has absolutely nothing to do with work. This
is the real paradox.
Say more about
that, please.
Napoleon Hill, who probably taught us as much about earning
money and wealthy people as anyone, said, "If you are one
of those people who believes that hard work and honesty
alone will bring riches, perish the thought, because it's
not true. Riches come, if they come at all, in response to
definite demands, based upon the application of definite
principles, and not by chance or luck."
Now, let's take what he's saying and relate it to Network
Marketing -- "riches come, if they come at all, in response
to definite demands, based upon the application of definite
principles, and not by chance or luck.?: Is there a demand
for someone who can show that 96 %, the people who are
feverishly involved in a losing proposition in the M1
income earning strategy, how to move to M3?
Is thee a demand for someone to show an individual how to
close the gap between the haves and the nave-nots?
I think there's a screaming demand for it, and it's
something that Network Marketing does. We show them how to
close the gap. We show them how to spend their days doing
the things that they really love doing, and at the same
time, earn the amount of money they need to live the way
they choose to live.
I don't think we're made for work. I believe that work is
made for us. I work every day, but I never look at it as
work, because I absolutely love what I'm doing. I find it
amusing that I get paid so well at times. I would do it for
nothing, because I absolutely love it. Love is harmony --
it's when your conscious mind, your sub-conscious and your
body are all in sync, and you truly love what you're doing.
Are you willing
to talk to me about the role of love in network
Marketing?
Sure -- that's a subject that people should spend a little
more time with. I see love as resonance. It's harmony.
People who are in love with helping people are huge
winners. You see that proven in Network Marketing all the
time -- the big winners in Network Marketing love watching
a person wake up. They love watching them win.
I watched a couple being recognized recently -- they stood
before the audience and said that they had been married for
13 years, and got a divorce. They stayed in touch because
of the kids. One of them got involved in a Network
Marketing company and got the other one involved, too. It
ended up bringing them back together -- after three and a
half years apart. They're happily married again now. Those
people love what they're doing, they love each other, and
they love helping other people. And who do you think likely
received the greatest reward, the most satisfaction? The
person who sponsored them. That's the biggest reward for
people -- helping others win.